friends with benefitsA casual relationship is sometimes referred to as a “no strings attached” relationship. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Casual_dating

It’s your FRIEND WITH BENEFITS. The person opposite sex or same sex that you’re banging on the low. Its the no strings attached relationship.

Your late night booty call or whatever, you want to call it. It’s a mutual attraction between two people, who either, don’t want to be in a relationship, scared of commitment, believes someone is good enough to fuck but not necessarily day, or they like the NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. Which is hard for women because that’s our battery to life, emotions.

These type of relationships comes with rules. I asked 4 guys and 4 girls what was the rules of FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS.   These are the answers that the guys responded with

  • KEEP IT REAL KEEP IT REAL KEEP IT REAL AND BASICALLY TO KEEP ON KEEPING IT REAL.
  • NO KISSING IN PUBLIC
  • NO BF OR GF FEELINGS
  • NO KISS AND TELL
  • IF YOU SEE EACH OTHER WITH SOMEONE ELSE KEEP IT PLAYA!

THE FOLLOWING ANSWERS WERE THE ANSWERS I RECEIVED FROM THE WOMEN..

  • KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN
  • NO BF OR GF FEELINGS
  • PICK A PERSON YOU CAN CUT OFF
  • KEEP IT IN THE HOUSE NO COUPLES ACTIVITIES, SUCH AS DINNER DATES, MOVIES, SPENDING THE NIGHT COOKING BREAKFAST IN THE AM.

Its crazy that the women rules seem more harsh and straight forward then the men. Seems women has had a few of these relationships and they no its better to keep the emotions as well as the hope for anything further is out the window.

Just remember that you aren’t the only one trying to be the only one. If he got some from you yesterday and becky with the good hair called the next day, hey he in something new. Its some girls that’s probably doing the same thing so LETS ALL PRACTICE SAFE SEX WRAP IT UP. Go to a clinic and get it for FREE

When you see your buddy out with someone else, you have one response: being cool. Smile (but not in a weird way), give a small wave or nod of acknowledgement, and move on. If appropriate, you can stop and chat with him and the girl he’s with, but don’t force the situation. An important rule is remembering that your relationship is not supposed to be a burden to you or him, so don’t treat it as such.

 

7 thoughts on “RULES OF FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS”

  1. You’ve obviously come to be friends with benifits for a reason…. one of dem reasons was probably compatible and the other was like emotional conection….. I’m mean why else would ppl get close…… one question could be how or why does ur friend wit benefits get cut off besides the no strings attached lol

    1. great question, maybe feelings did arise? maybe sometimes its better to cut it off when that starts to happen because one at the end of it you lose the friend as well as the friend with benefits.This is one of the biggest problems in engaging in a friends with benefits arrangement. Sooner or later, one of you will become attached. This can happen if neither of you are seeing anyone else, or if one of you has an underlying emotional or personality problem.

  2. You’ve obviously come to be friends with benifits for a reason…. one of dem reasons was probably compatible and the other was like emotional conection….. I’m mean why else would ppl get close…… one question could be how or why does ur friend wit benefits get cut off besides the no strings attached lol

    1. I think they would get cut off for several reasons. One being feelings start to develop, or maybe one started a relationship, or needed to focus on themselves, realized they were worth much more then a friend with benefit. I’m not sure but that’s a few I can come up with myself. FWB is one of those things you must tread lightly with to keep your friendship with the person the whole dynamic of that can be altered really quick, once feelings are involved and emotions take over.

  3. Friends with benefits. That’s really a difficult relationship to be followed. In such a relationship, we should not hurt the other person as well as we should not fall for that person. That’s something which happened to me. I couldn’t understand her properly. Now, I do miss her alot. Iam married to another girl who can’t adjust with my behaviour like she did.

  4. I don’t know how to react to this post. I believed in friends with benefits not in true relationship. But unfortunately I fell for him and I couldn’t help it. I didn’t dare to say him that. So i thought to go far away from him. I didn’t give him any reason for that. But now, I miss him a lot. I wish he too did that. But iam sure that he dont love me. But still I wanna propose him. How can I do that? N do you think I should propose him?

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