WOMEN SAID THIS MEN SAID THAT
*WHO SHOULD PAY FOR THE FIRST DATE OR SHOULD YOU JUST BE READY GO HALF?
W: I think the man should pay, but ladies always be ready for a clown to pull a trick out his sleeve.
M: the man, for the most part, should pay for dates unless he has major financial commitments
*Do traditional roles even matter anymore? Does a girl have to cook or clean at all? Do most guys still care about that stuff?
W:hmm I don’t know how to answer this because in a relationship I don’t take out trash. I think it’s the guy’s responsibility to do and check my car maintenance. I also love when a man can cook though lol
M: Roles don’t matter much; as women become more independent they separate from traditional cooking and cleaning
*Do guys dream of weddings and babies like some women do? Or is it out of mind until you meet ?
W: I don’t this guys think of that at all.
M: I have never dreamed of a wedding or babies but it’s not out of mind; we just don’t overthink about wedding etc
*What do you really want to do on a date?
W: I don’t want to go to the movies for sure, you don’t get to know a person or talk to a person in the movies. I want to be outdoors, I want to be somewhere I can learn something about the person I’m with.
M: I like active dates; no movies because I’ll go to sleep
*THOUGHTS ON PDA
W: I enjoy affection just depends where the pda is taken place. Don’t do too much in front of my family or elders, not around kids I have a few rules. I don’t mind a tug on my hand as were walking to pull me in for a peck.
M: I am one guy who does not mind affection; I did it more as a teen and enjoyed it then and now I would still display affection but not as aggressive
What makes a girl dateable versus a fling?
M: nothing a could be a fling; if you want to be seen in public with her then she’s datable
W: I would say girls that come out the club to a guy’s house probably aren’t the top of the dating list, but it’s somebody for everybody so I have not a clue
*DOES SEX ON THE FIRST DATE MEAN SHE ISNT DATEABLE
M: NO it means she is feeling you sexually or she’s horny; either way she’s comfortable with doing something and not afraid of that stigma
W: If I was a guy, I’d think about it frfr because who else and how many more has she had sex with on the first date. Was it some talking or getting to know each other first? Was this from the bar to the house? Or a long time no see ya I had a crush on you back in the day thing?
* Do you judge girls by their jobs?
*When do you tell a girl you love her?
M: I would only say that when/if I feel that
W: I tell all my YITCHES I LOVE THEM
W: that I personally believe is on the person and or the people. Like homeboy answered above me its constant work, both people have to want the same thing. You have to communicate, admit you’re wrong, apologize, keep doing what you did to get them, keep the spark, and NEVER TAKE SOMEONE FOR GRANTED OR REALIZE THE GRASS IS GREEN THEN THIS ROOM. BUT THAT’S HARD TO FIND AND PEOPLE DON’T RESPECT VALUES AND NOTHING IS OURS FOREVER LOVE IT WHILE YOU CAN.
M: good question
M: the mines is going, no
W: I don’t think so but some people can survive it. I have a few views such as if there is no punishment or consequence why would they not do it again.
I also mention a lot of work for a relationship to work, if you feel you can survive it don’t keep bringing it up, don’t live life thinking it will happen again and don’t go looking for it.
M: should have a good idea at around 23/24
M: comes from a driver that too cautious or to aggressive
W: the car in front of me breaking, hopefully because the car in front of them doing the same, of the nosey person looking at the accident like they are going to help, like everyone else has nowhere to be
W: they ass was really right the whole time
W: if they can balance and teach other
W: only WHEN DRUNK LMAO…naw unless the person is in danger or something really crazy other than that STFU lol
M: no one likes to be wrong
W: Because when I’m right I’m right, and when I’m wrong I could have been right, so I’m still right cause I could have been wrong ha-ha